Janet Heckathorn
Janet Heckathorn
honeylove83@live.com
Janet subscribed to my “How to Become a Successful Escort” free list around 3 months ago & all was fine until I started having problems from people on the list with this Boxbe thing that must weed out spam, so I asked everyone on the list if they are on it, to remove me from that e-mail & put me on one that doesn’t have Boxbe.
Well the next day Janet started demanding I remove her from the list & being nasty about it. “you can remove me im real so missy dont get a attitude with me”
People, I’m NOT your secretary. Lists are self containing, you can unsubscribe yourself & it clearly says that in EVERY E-MAIL THAT GOES OUT.
I told her I didn’t know what she was talking about & she could remove herself, because I don’t deal with nasty people.
She responded back again being mean spirited, so I thought everyone should know what this girl is like, in my opinion, since I’m trying to only bring nice escorts into the escort industry, not these nasty ones who have the intelligence of an ant.
Sorry for being judgmental here, but I don’t take kindly to people being nasty & mean spirited for no reason at all. Clearly this e-mail didn’t apply to Janet, but she didn’t get that, nor did she read the e-mail when she first signed up explaining how lists work. Had she done that, she would have ignored it since it DIDN’T apply to her, or just unsubscribed herself like everyone else does. Not gotten mean about one bloody e-mail.
Update, LOL, now she’s threatening me with the police… “you arnt very smart yourself i am taking this email to the police for harassment”
April 26th, 2010 at 1:58 pm
It’s now 04-26-10 & I believe Janet & her friends are harassing me once again.
Last night someone (or her) started e-mailing me as Alexis with this e-mail address alexialegz@yahoo.com & stated:
“this janet did not understand why she was getting emails from you michelle could you pls remove her she had never once signed up to be a escort some how someone got in her emails and started using her email as their own could you be kind enough to remove janet from all these posting she didnt understand why you were emailing her stuff and was frustrating her shes a smart woman and would like removed if she did you any harm in her anger to all this she appologises, so again i ask if you could remove her .. ty…. you have my email if you need to get in contact with me again plz feel free to use again i appologize for any disruptions made to u on her behalf but she was worried as to why she kept getting such things and again i appolgis on my behalf for all this but is only way to let ppl know janet is wrong accused here ……. ty in advance for removing her……..”
Thinking at the time that I was maybe talking to Janet’s mother, I simply stated that you don’t know if Janet is an escort or not, most people close to escorts don’t know they are one & based on how nasty Janet was & the fact that her English was so terrible, my guess is that Janet is an escort.
No offense to well educated very intelligent escorts out there & I must clarify that there are plenty of very nasty people out there who are NOT escorts. I don’t want to make it seem like the escort industry ONLY has nasty people in it, but I am trying to clean the industry up as it can draw very unhappy people to it unfortunately.
Then today when I got to my desk, this Alexis person started harassing me 3 times & again I was threatened.
First Alexis posted this lie saying I was rude to her when nothing could be further from the truth. Just because I didn’t agree with what this person was saying & therefore I questioned it does NOT mean I was being rude. But I guess that if Alexis doesn’t get her way after one e-mail, she equates this to me being rude.
“again i have asked for janet to be removed due to confusion on her part and michelle was very rude about it..michelle i will warn you if this continues as i am being polite in a request for removal i will have to take this to a higher level which i think we both can avoid since it is illegal to post personal info about ppl on the internet. I have been kind in giving you Ms janets appology and you still consider her a escort i have printed out copies of the emails and am preparing to take to a higher level. We both can avoid this if you just remove Ms janet from this…. Again thank you for being so kind …”
Then direct e-mails to me… (now all of a sudden this person is Alexis’ employer. This is news to me.)
“Ma’am i waiting your response to all this, Please be so kind enough to return a reply as soon as possible and i highly doubt Janet wants to be a escort considering the things i truly know bout my employee, Maybe is you who misunderstood her.Please reply as soon as you can …Again thank you for your previous response.
Thank You,
Alexia”
and again all within 3 hours not even waiting for a response. I guess this so called Alexis person thinks I just sit here at my computer waiting for her e-mails.
“OK michelle i have been kind and considerate to you long enough… you accuse without proper knowledge of someone and now that’s a direct accusation i didn’t wanna per-sue this any further for the sake of you and your company, but now i know your none response is a direct lie since you base your knowledge off of ignorance … you have 24 hours to directly remove Janet’s name with no-more additions to the blog of yours on this matter if not i will be in direct contact with my Friends in the courthouse to resolve this matter and issue that doesn’t wanna be resolved fairly on your part….
&n bsp; Thank You Again,
&n bsp;
&n bsp; Alexia”
First Alexis is Janet’s employer, now she’s her lawyer, then she is going to contact people at the court house.
Based on her English skills, I’d say she is a friend of Janet’s & nothing more. Maybe she’s not Janet, but she’s certainly not a lawyer or well educated.
And I NEVER said Janet was an escort. She ended up on my escort list for a reason. Many people who are not escorts sign up to our list to see if this is the right profession for them.
We didn’t put Janet there. We would NEVER do such a thing. In fact I care so much about security, that you can’t just “get” on our list without double opting in. This means you have to have access to that e-mail address & confirm your subscription before you actually start receiving e-mails.
At any time Janet could have removed herself from the list just by clicking on the unsubscribe link that is at the bottom of all e-mails that go out from that list. This was explained to her the first day she was signed up.
Janet didn’t unsubscribe herself.
Instead she was a nasty person to me demanding (I guess she felt I was her servant) I remove her. Had I been able to communicate with Janet in a coherent mature manner, this would never have happened, but unfortunately it did. And based on how this person Alexis who may or may not be Janet is talking to me now, her reactions, English & level of nastiness, it all seems like the same behavior to me.
That is all my own opinion. You can make up your own mind as to what is going on here.
Michelle
April 26th, 2010 at 8:46 pm
You see people, this is exactly why these people are put on this blog, because they have serious issues. People have the right to get angry if I do something to them & I will be the FIRST person to apologize if I do something I feel is wrong, but to go around lying about someone just to retaliate is vindictive & immature.
This is why when you read lies about Exotic Publishing or me calling me a scam, please understand that they are just people who brought all of this upon themselves & when I called them on it, their only retaliation was to lie & call Exotic Publishing a scam.
If I was a scam, I wouldn’t have a long list of clients who are happy with Exotic Publishing.
This person isn’t even a client, as I don’t have clients who act like this. I love my clients.
This girl is just some disturbed person who attacked people online & then when I finally had to out her, she resorts to lies, more attacks & threats…
I have reported her to Yahoo.
Here’s more of her blog posts…
“this is a lady who isnt a lady a real lady would take the oppertunity and have janet removed out of kindness rather than keep out of vindictivness.. anyone who buys her so called books beware shes a scammer whos waiting to take you for a scary ride.. now i think we all need to post our experiences with her and her companies on the internet and show the world what a vindictive evil bitch she is… good day michelle..”
and….
“she is a complete liar in her blog she only states to her satisfactory and to make herself look like the white feathered angel she is not and oh michelle i am not janets mother and again had you level of intelligence read my emails correctly you would have known all i said was correct and truthful.. unlike you michelle we have lives and we dont deal with your kind who take pride in ruining others because of a little girl tiff.. your level of intelligence is that of a piss ant !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
This was NOT a tiff between girls. First of all I’m not a girl, I’m a woman, a business woman at that & I don’t lie. I don’t put people on this blog just because of something small. I have better things to do with my time.
I don’t know this person, but I state very clearly that if you attack me, harass me, commit fraud, lie, or do anything that I don’t consider to be normal human behavior, you will go on my blog. It’s really that simple. People need to learn they can’t go around treating other people like this just because they can hide behind the monitor.
Now you can see by her continuous responses that this is unfortunately her true personality which is why I didn’t jump to remove her from the blog when she asked the first time around. I wanted to see where the situation took me & here we are…
Michelle
May 1st, 2010 at 9:13 pm
More really nasty stuff…
“get a grip michelle ur such a liar and assume coz ur a fucking hooker janets one good god lady grow up stop insulting people with your lack of smarts and wit… go hooker urself around some more and leave janet alone… you low paid escort of a hooker…”
and
“michelle lie some more to people coz if they read your blog they would know you have made a career outta treating people with disrespect and by the way little girls act the way you do .. ladies are what janet is … enjoy your low life hookering you white trash …”
May 1st, 2010 at 9:25 pm
So this Alexis person continued to harass me throughout the day 7 times. Then the next day Janet supposedly e-mails me saying she’s using Alexis’ e-mail address. All very suspicious & strange. Why in the world would someone go use someone else’s e-mail address?
Janet appears to be calm & lucid & she apologized & wanted to make amends.
I was this close to removing this blog post when someone ELSE (Jill – jilllang32@yahoo.com) suddenly tries to post & says I should remove Janet’s post.
I don’t tolerate peer pressure & it was clear now that this had become a posse of people trying to pressure me instead of Janet just dealing with this on her own in the first place.
Upon further investigation, it became clear to me that it was either Alexis or Janet who wrote Jill’s post, so now the question is, did Janet just pretend to be Alexis, or is it only that Alexis pretended to be that person Jill?
Janet still says Alexis is her boss, but I can’t believe anything she says at this point.
Either way it didn’t matter to me. What matters now is that this stopped being about how Janet treated me initially, & how this entire drama progressed by people (or just Janet) who in my opinion act like they are teenagers. They can’t write proper English, they lie uncontrollably, they threaten, call names & just all around act like bullies.
Janet may not be an escort, but that doesn’t matter anymore & never did since it shouldn’t matter if someone is an escort or not. What should matter, is how they treat others.
Understand people, I don’t tolerate bullies!
May 2nd, 2010 at 4:08 am
Janet & her friends (assuming they are her friends & not Janet herself) are still harassing me & calling me names.
They try to make it seem like I am the problem, yet they continuously harass, bully, call me names & pretend like they are innocent.
Janet, all you are doing is proving to anyone who reads this post that you won’t stop. You keep saying you will & then I get more nasty name calling posts.
Keep it up Janet.